Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Letting Me Down Easy

I had been dating a very sweet guy. Things had been going great for about a month. And then he fell off the map for a week. I wake up to an "I don't want to see you anymore" email.

Well sh*t.

First of all, I kick myself because I've been making excusses for him in my head. WHY??? He hasn't talked to me for a week and I'm the one saying "oh he's probably just exhausted from work"??? Come on!! I've read He's Just Not That Into You. I know that guys will find ways to talk to girls they are interested in, come hell or high water. I knew that something like this was coming when I hadn't heard from him in days.

Second...and email? One of many things that I hate about technology is that it allows guys to be absolute cowards. And to add insult to injury, his reason to stop seeng me is that I remind him of an ex-girlfriend. Really? Really?? So hung up about this ex that you can't seem to muster up some balls to just call me and tell me that you don't want to date me? You've got to throw that stellar line in there?

This is not the first time a guy has broken up with me online. But this will be the first time that he gets exactly what he deserves. I am not going to respond to him...ever again. I see no need to email back, text back, write back, call back or send a carrier pidgeon. He doesn't want anything more to do with me? Fine. Done.

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